<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.comments</id><updated>2009-11-15T23:12:45.645-06:00</updated><title type='text'>pomegranate pretty</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/feeds/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/comments/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>pom.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01586426633612449976</uri><email>pomegranate.pretty@gmail.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2526</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5606207072735345292</id><published>2009-11-15T23:12:45.645-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-15T23:12:45.645-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Yup, card carrying stalker right here :D And tell ...</title><content type='html'>Yup, card carrying stalker right here :D And tell those patients I said to be nice, or I&amp;#39;ll grr at them *hugs*</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5997995134339777226/comments/default/5606207072735345292'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5997995134339777226/comments/default/5606207072735345292'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/stalker.html?showComment=1258348365645#c5606207072735345292' title=''/><author><name>Nickie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17450047662423254301</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/stalker.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5997995134339777226' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/5997995134339777226' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-4970687860665219271</id><published>2009-11-15T22:48:46.315-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-15T22:48:46.315-06:00</updated><title type='text'>haha...i think many of us have these tendencies!</title><content type='html'>haha...i think many of us have these tendencies!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5997995134339777226/comments/default/4970687860665219271'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5997995134339777226/comments/default/4970687860665219271'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/stalker.html?showComment=1258346926315#c4970687860665219271' title=''/><author><name>robina</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00588321101320225125</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/stalker.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5997995134339777226' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/5997995134339777226' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-7963859889952362693</id><published>2009-11-14T19:52:59.977-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-14T19:52:59.977-06:00</updated><title type='text'>dude, our birthdays are really close and I feel yo...</title><content type='html'>dude, our birthdays are really close and I feel youuuu. that 30 looming sounds scary.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/2202708953373578782/comments/default/7963859889952362693'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/2202708953373578782/comments/default/7963859889952362693'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/hi-thanks.html?showComment=1258249979977#c7963859889952362693' title=''/><author><name>...the who cares girl...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13147186720862969189</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/hi-thanks.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-2202708953373578782' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/2202708953373578782' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-4296938640280437825</id><published>2009-11-14T07:44:57.129-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-14T07:44:57.129-06:00</updated><title type='text'>I am a big stalker, too.  It is like I have to rea...</title><content type='html'>I am a big stalker, too.  It is like I have to read about other people and how they live and cope so that I can make myself get out of bed, or appreciate what I have more.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is also nice that it can give the illusion of having friends.  :) Yay, blogging!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5997995134339777226/comments/default/4296938640280437825'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5997995134339777226/comments/default/4296938640280437825'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/stalker.html?showComment=1258206297129#c4296938640280437825' title=''/><author><name>Chessy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04802019298210478600</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17696056335057614236'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/stalker.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5997995134339777226' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/5997995134339777226' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-7359208040291958087</id><published>2009-11-13T19:11:13.360-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-13T19:11:13.360-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Well, I'm not a regular poster anymore, but let it...</title><content type='html'>Well, I&amp;#39;m not a regular poster anymore, but let it be known that I stalk you because I always read your blog!!  And I want to pinch Beebs&amp;#39; cheeks!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5997995134339777226/comments/default/7359208040291958087'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5997995134339777226/comments/default/7359208040291958087'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/stalker.html?showComment=1258161073360#c7359208040291958087' title=''/><author><name>Melinda</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/stalker.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5997995134339777226' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/5997995134339777226' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-1158495324758957849</id><published>2009-11-09T09:38:49.912-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T09:38:49.912-06:00</updated><title type='text'>prenatal vites? you can get those for "any old tim...</title><content type='html'>prenatal vites? you can get those for &amp;quot;any old time?&amp;quot;  from your &amp;quot;almost-30&amp;quot; scatteredness … this older lady here says, &amp;quot;gimme!&amp;quot;  lists are fine.  now-time is the best.  i find that &amp;quot;there is no money to spare&amp;quot; is a great way to &amp;quot;stay organized,&amp;quot; b/c everything just gets nixed in the House Vote.  (meaning, you can&amp;#39;t put the mortgage on credit, so you have to be really careful about the other stuff you do — oh, we want new clothes so badly … )&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;speaking of House votes, let&amp;#39;s try to keep this &amp;quot;can&amp;#39;t deny coverage thing&amp;quot; on that table so that your sis-in-law can get some insurance soon.  not that it won&amp;#39;t be unaffordable, but still.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;would like to know more about how we all can avoid such neuro disasters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and you were right to complain about syringes and food trays.  blech.  talk about getting the &amp;quot;small things are not important&amp;quot; wrong!  : )</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/2202708953373578782/comments/default/1158495324758957849'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/2202708953373578782/comments/default/1158495324758957849'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/hi-thanks.html?showComment=1257781129912#c1158495324758957849' title=''/><author><name>Applecart T.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00812569499485598060</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/hi-thanks.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-2202708953373578782' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/2202708953373578782' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-6738206008806786475</id><published>2009-11-08T15:35:44.324-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-08T15:35:44.324-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Hi! Thank you so much for the donations, guys.  I ...</title><content type='html'>Hi! Thank you so much for the donations, guys.  I received 2 donations and am sending my SIL a check for $30/the amount of the donations.  Every bit helps!  When her hospital bills start rolling in it&amp;#39;s going to be very overwhelming.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;T, to answer your question, I don&amp;#39;t know for sure, but mostly it&amp;#39;s a matter of being able to afford it.  She&amp;#39;s in vet school and doesn&amp;#39;t work right now.  I think they do have some sort of something (??) for my nephew because he&amp;#39;s got asthma and does a lot of breathing treatments/prescription meds.  Her husband is an out-of-work pilot that now delivers pizzas.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Insurance is just.. wow.  Working in a hospital, it makes me so beyond frustrated when I hear people&amp;#39;s concerns/rage/etc. over insurance or lack of.  People genuinely risk their lives because they can&amp;#39;t afford insurance or to come to the hospital.  I know, ppl. know this already but..wow. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks again for the donations!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/3618402082358300190/comments/default/6738206008806786475'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/3618402082358300190/comments/default/6738206008806786475'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/my-sister-in-law-roommates-sister-is-in.html?showComment=1257716144324#c6738206008806786475' title=''/><author><name>pom.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01586426633612449976</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='04133300293089638671'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/my-sister-in-law-roommates-sister-is-in.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-3618402082358300190' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/3618402082358300190' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-4114768804851227385</id><published>2009-11-02T13:06:50.322-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T13:06:50.322-06:00</updated><title type='text'>i want to learn more about the no-health-insurance...</title><content type='html'>i want to learn more about the no-health-insurance part (b/c everyone has their reasons and it&amp;#39;s the current national debate right now).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;the reason is likely too private / one of those complex things / a question of balance / you can&amp;#39;t pay for everything (something has to be cut out); but 36 is &amp;quot;old&amp;quot; not to have some kind of coverage … because shit happens all the time, and more often to those of us over 35.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and if you have a dependent : (&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;it&amp;#39;s none of my business whatsoever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;i have insurance and still can&amp;#39;t pay bills (just yet) on a very minor e-room adventure from august.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;i am very sorry for her.  life is ___.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;scary as shit.  money coming …</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/3618402082358300190/comments/default/4114768804851227385'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/3618402082358300190/comments/default/4114768804851227385'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/my-sister-in-law-roommates-sister-is-in.html?showComment=1257188810322#c4114768804851227385' title=''/><author><name>Applecart T.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00812569499485598060</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/my-sister-in-law-roommates-sister-is-in.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-3618402082358300190' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/3618402082358300190' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-2456383342843975744</id><published>2009-11-01T14:18:47.572-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-01T14:18:47.572-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Wow, I hope they find some answers for her! *hugs*...</title><content type='html'>Wow, I hope they find some answers for her! *hugs*</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/3618402082358300190/comments/default/2456383342843975744'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/3618402082358300190/comments/default/2456383342843975744'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/my-sister-in-law-roommates-sister-is-in.html?showComment=1257106727572#c2456383342843975744' title=''/><author><name>Nickie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17450047662423254301</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/11/my-sister-in-law-roommates-sister-is-in.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-3618402082358300190' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/3618402082358300190' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5158548255223255403</id><published>2009-10-27T12:22:23.616-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-27T12:22:23.616-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Sounds like you have a good set up with the lil' o...</title><content type='html'>Sounds like you have a good set up with the lil&amp;#39; one - so great that you get to enjoy this time with her :) And boy do I hate job anxieties too!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5791232095294090256/comments/default/5158548255223255403'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5791232095294090256/comments/default/5158548255223255403'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/which-way-to-gun-show.html?showComment=1256664143616#c5158548255223255403' title=''/><author><name>Nickie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17450047662423254301</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/which-way-to-gun-show.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5791232095294090256' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/5791232095294090256' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5198221965436373932</id><published>2009-10-22T10:14:24.622-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T10:14:24.622-05:00</updated><title type='text'>hey pom - just thought you may be interested? this...</title><content type='html'>hey pom - just thought you may be interested? this is where our ped is...thought i&amp;#39;d send it out there :) it&amp;#39;s at st. joseph hosp.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Child Care Limited Pediatrics&lt;br /&gt;Due to our ever growing practice, we are looking to expand our nursing staff. If you know any nurses with pediatric experience that would be interested in applying for a position at Child Care Limited, please contact our Nurse Manager Helen at 816-941-5238.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/5198221965436373932'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/5198221965436373932'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html?showComment=1256224464622#c5198221965436373932' title=''/><author><name>flowerparts@yahoo.com</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-4897300657778908486' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/4897300657778908486' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-4110946539049406832</id><published>2009-10-21T05:21:03.340-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T05:21:03.340-05:00</updated><title type='text'>thanks, guys!
Re: the last 2 comments
confused - t...</title><content type='html'>thanks, guys!&lt;br /&gt;Re: the last 2 comments&lt;br /&gt;confused - those comments about Beebs? I just didn&amp;#39;t know what brought them up...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/4110946539049406832'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/4110946539049406832'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html?showComment=1256120463340#c4110946539049406832' title=''/><author><name>pom.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01586426633612449976</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='04133300293089638671'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-4897300657778908486' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/4897300657778908486' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-662846497398097534</id><published>2009-10-20T19:03:56.353-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-20T19:03:56.353-05:00</updated><title type='text'>she's happy; go with that.  the rest follows or do...</title><content type='html'>she&amp;#39;s happy; go with that.  the rest follows or doesn&amp;#39;t, but it&amp;#39;s not related.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/662846497398097534'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/662846497398097534'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html?showComment=1256083436353#c662846497398097534' title=''/><author><name>Applecart T.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00812569499485598060</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-4897300657778908486' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/4897300657778908486' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-7882717386903913501</id><published>2009-10-20T17:45:38.049-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-20T17:45:38.049-05:00</updated><title type='text'>...looking at your photos...how did our babies bec...</title><content type='html'>...looking at your photos...how did our babies become such little people???  They are growing so fast!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;here&amp;#39;s a place to check out--kcapfamilies.com  It&amp;#39;s an attachment parenting group.  No worries, you prolly do most of the stuff the group does.  Would love to have you join...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/7882717386903913501'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/7882717386903913501'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html?showComment=1256078738049#c7882717386903913501' title=''/><author><name>k sime</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00876770390554064811</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-4897300657778908486' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/4897300657778908486' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-8838262651861878149</id><published>2009-10-20T10:27:27.138-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-20T10:27:27.138-05:00</updated><title type='text'>LOVE THE PICTURES!!!  Beebs is just a doll.  Might...</title><content type='html'>LOVE THE PICTURES!!!  Beebs is just a doll.  Might make me want one of my own one of these days.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Re: your mom, do you think you could have a convo with her where you tell her that maybe it&amp;#39;s not the best for you to hear about her feelings with your dad?  I know, blasphemy, but you&amp;#39;re the daughter, not a conspirator.  She might have hurt feelings for awhile, but if it hinders your healing, it may also be hindering a stronger friendship with your mom.  If you don&amp;#39;t want to do that, best to figure out how to deal with her when she goes off on a rant...if you can&amp;#39;t change her, you have to change yourself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just remember to cry when you need to, and feel angry when you need to.  It gets easier with time, but it takes time, and you can&amp;#39;t rush it.  Hugs!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/8838262651861878149'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/8838262651861878149'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html?showComment=1256052447138#c8838262651861878149' title=''/><author><name>Melinda</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-4897300657778908486' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/4897300657778908486' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-2998864602984614836</id><published>2009-10-19T20:28:24.443-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-19T20:28:24.443-05:00</updated><title type='text'>What a lovely Beebs you have.</title><content type='html'>What a lovely Beebs you have.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/2998864602984614836'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/2998864602984614836'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html?showComment=1256002104443#c2998864602984614836' title=''/><author><name>Donna</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18393352099473686196</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-4897300657778908486' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/4897300657778908486' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-3223654106894321557</id><published>2009-10-19T17:12:39.268-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-19T17:12:39.268-05:00</updated><title type='text'>yeehaw! great to be you! good stuff: keep it up!

...</title><content type='html'>yeehaw! great to be you! good stuff: keep it up!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;yeah, i know you&amp;#39;re probably not all that elated right now, but it DOES get better and better. like anything else worth knowing/understanding, the process is iterative and somewhat painful (less so the further you grow. but you can definitely do this...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;&lt;i&gt;...the light bulb went off and my doc like, slid her watch back on her arm and said &amp;quot;ok so when for our next appointment&lt;/i&gt;?&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;not for nothin&amp;#39;, but that is sooooo a Tony Soprano moment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;; &amp;#39;   )&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Cor&lt;/i&gt;!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/3223654106894321557'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/4897300657778908486/comments/default/3223654106894321557'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html?showComment=1255990359268#c3223654106894321557' title=''/><author><name>Nick</name><uri>http://willnotbetelevised.com/tv/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/autumnal-post.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-4897300657778908486' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/4897300657778908486' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-3053503849589126166</id><published>2009-10-16T17:37:55.112-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-16T17:37:55.112-05:00</updated><title type='text'>It is easy to get lost in a "foreign" American cit...</title><content type='html'>It is easy to get lost in a &amp;quot;foreign&amp;quot; American city; streets are not straight and they change names.  Exits on freeways / highways /etc. are not always matched by on-ramps nearby or any way to return to former throughways easily.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Online in advance can help, if you remember to print things out.  Also the cheesy tourist bureau, which always has good street maps and &amp;quot;things to do.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can&amp;#39;t imagine traveling with a little one, but I guess she&amp;#39;s just part of your life anyway and it feels normal.  I&amp;#39;ve never been to Austin, so I don&amp;#39;t know what it&amp;#39;s like, but I have been confused by many interstates and downtowns and suburbs.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5465034864013569807/comments/default/3053503849589126166'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5465034864013569807/comments/default/3053503849589126166'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/tx.html?showComment=1255732675112#c3053503849589126166' title=''/><author><name>Applecart T.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00812569499485598060</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/tx.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5465034864013569807' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/5465034864013569807' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-9178463865223564103</id><published>2009-10-14T19:02:19.723-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-14T19:02:19.723-05:00</updated><title type='text'>this is how i do vacation best:  find a location t...</title><content type='html'>this is how i do vacation best:  find a location that is closest to where we want to spend the most time, bring lots of snacks, don&amp;#39;t plan too much, enjoy the scenery...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;hope you enjoy the rest of your vacation.  shoot me an e-mail when you get back so we can get together.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5465034864013569807/comments/default/9178463865223564103'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5465034864013569807/comments/default/9178463865223564103'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/tx.html?showComment=1255564939723#c9178463865223564103' title=''/><author><name>k sime</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00876770390554064811</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/tx.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5465034864013569807' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/5465034864013569807' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-1412749776663083666</id><published>2009-10-13T10:15:54.798-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-13T10:15:54.798-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Vacations are full of ups and downs. I just try to...</title><content type='html'>Vacations are full of ups and downs. I just try to stay flexible as much as I can. Doesn&amp;#39;t always work but keeps it so there are more ups. I haven&amp;#39;t traveled much with a wee one, but I imagine it definitely changes things :) Hope you get to enjoy a different place - Austin! Someday I&amp;#39;d like to go there :) Take care darling &amp;lt;3</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5465034864013569807/comments/default/1412749776663083666'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5465034864013569807/comments/default/1412749776663083666'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/tx.html?showComment=1255446954798#c1412749776663083666' title=''/><author><name>Nickie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17450047662423254301</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/tx.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5465034864013569807' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/5465034864013569807' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-7219581737089824834</id><published>2009-10-11T10:08:22.728-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-11T10:08:22.728-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Some vacations aren't really vacations, you know? ...</title><content type='html'>Some vacations aren&amp;#39;t really vacations, you know?  This might be one of them.  But it does help to do a little homework ahead of time - that way you can rule out what you don&amp;#39;t want to do and focus on what sounds good.  Hotel front desk people know this stuff and where to point you, so hopefully you took Jodi&amp;#39;s advice and asked them!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5465034864013569807/comments/default/7219581737089824834'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5465034864013569807/comments/default/7219581737089824834'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/tx.html?showComment=1255273702728#c7219581737089824834' title=''/><author><name>Melinda</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05321872473726824271</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/tx.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5465034864013569807' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/5465034864013569807' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-2725219868364677284</id><published>2009-10-11T09:00:02.040-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-11T09:00:02.040-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I hope your vacation improves soon!  Here's what w...</title><content type='html'>I hope your vacation improves soon!  Here&amp;#39;s what we do:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(1) Ask the people at the hotel&amp;#39;s front desk&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(2) Get a GPS&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good luck!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5465034864013569807/comments/default/2725219868364677284'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/5465034864013569807/comments/default/2725219868364677284'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/tx.html?showComment=1255269602040#c2725219868364677284' title=''/><author><name>Jodi</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17024849680427243311</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/tx.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-5465034864013569807' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/5465034864013569807' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-9063724626763080972</id><published>2009-10-07T20:00:54.286-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-07T20:00:54.286-05:00</updated><title type='text'>hope you're enjoying your vacation!

i've got a pl...</title><content type='html'>hope you&amp;#39;re enjoying your vacation!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;i&amp;#39;ve got a playgroup going on friday mornings.  would you and beebs be able to come some time?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/7856787416210032446/comments/default/9063724626763080972'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/7856787416210032446/comments/default/9063724626763080972'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/few-things.html?showComment=1254963654286#c9063724626763080972' title=''/><author><name>k sime</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00876770390554064811</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/10/few-things.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-7856787416210032446' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/7856787416210032446' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-6836287192974056288</id><published>2009-10-05T14:26:51.254-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-05T14:26:51.254-05:00</updated><title type='text'>oh, pommy.
it's ok …
well, it's not, b/c what do i...</title><content type='html'>oh, pommy.&lt;br /&gt;it&amp;#39;s ok …&lt;br /&gt;well, it&amp;#39;s not, b/c what do i know.&lt;br /&gt;but i am tearing up in the eyes for you, dear.&lt;br /&gt;*thoughts to you*</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/1569726924637844497/comments/default/6836287192974056288'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/1569726924637844497/comments/default/6836287192974056288'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/09/september-september.html?showComment=1254770811254#c6836287192974056288' title=''/><author><name>Applecart T.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00812569499485598060</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/09/september-september.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-1569726924637844497' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/1569726924637844497' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-3432499574708634658</id><published>2009-09-23T16:31:15.108-05:00</published><updated>2009-09-23T16:31:15.108-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Make a resume. Then just start applying. I applied...</title><content type='html'>Make a resume. Then just start applying. I applied for probably 15jobs in lots of different places and it felt like, for me, the hardest thing was starting because you feel kind of stuck and overwhelmed. But if you start now there is plenty of time to meet your goal of changing jobs the end of the year and you have time to pick and choose what to interview for, and ultimately what job to accept.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can do it !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;P.S. Not hating your job is not at all overrated.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/1823102496233023661/comments/default/3432499574708634658'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/1823102496233023661/comments/default/3432499574708634658'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/09/lets-get-out-of-here.html?showComment=1253741475108#c3432499574708634658' title=''/><author><name>Trisha</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09222708282703583195</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://boxedfruit.blogspot.com/2009/09/lets-get-out-of-here.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7896802.post-1823102496233023661' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7896802/posts/default/1823102496233023661' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>